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Why Guys Get Whipped By Their Women

By Dr. George Karanastasis

Why Guys Get WhippedYou know the type. They hear “Jump!” and respond with “How high?” Now, there’s no such thing as equality in a relationship. Someone always has the upper hand. But that doesn’t mean you should allow the scale to tip too far in her favor. Why?

Because when it does, you’re whipped. And that’s a bad spot to be in (more on this later). Now, if the description in this post is starting to sound a lot like you… keep reading! It will mean a world of difference when it comes to making your relationship last.

So why do men allow themselves to get this way? Two words: comfort and complacency. That’s all it comes down to.

They get too comfortable once the relationship has “aged” (i.e. when it has gone from the Honeymoon to the Reality stage). “Sure, she’s a little bossy and irrational at times, but that’s my girl and she loves me,” right? Wrong! She might love you (although that’s debatable) but she certainly doesn’t respect you. And one day this is going to come back to haunt you.

Next, there’s complacency. The dictionary defines this as: a feeling of contentment or self-satisfaction, especially when coupled with an unawareness of danger, trouble, or controversy (emphasis mine). What do you think “danger” means in regards to a relationship? A high probability of losing her. And when that happens, it won’t be pretty.

So what’s the solution? How can you gain back some of that power you seem to have lost? It starts with awareness. Knowing you have a problem is the first step to solving it (pardon the cliché). Next is self-respect. You have to have it to receive it.

Don’t let anymore treat you like a doormat, whether it’s your partner or anybody else. Make it clear that you won’t stand for anything less than equality. Better yet - put your foot down and demand a little more. Once you do, you’ll experience a big change in the way you’re treated - by your partner and everybody else.

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3 Responses to “Why Guys Get Whipped By Their Women”

  1. J Says:
    June 29th, 2010 at 10:40 pm

    thats kinda what happend to me. i didnt feel whipped but she left me for someone else and asked if id be around if it didnt work out. I knw now she didnt respect me and i didnt respect myself. Now shes still with him but texts me all the time to see what imdoing. when i dont answer her questions she freaks and says she wanted to work us out but says its obvious im moving on. Jus keeping me on a string. How can i get off this string and get her to respect me again? and furthermore how can i get her back???

  2. Anna Says:
    December 10th, 2010 at 12:07 pm

    I have a friend who likes me, I like him too, too bad he is whipped by his woman, he has a relationship with her for 8 years. He says he doesn’t love her, but she shows up at his doorstep anyway. I told him that as long as he entertains her he can’t start over with anyone else or me. He don’t do nothing, so don’t complain, and don’t bother wasting time if you are whipped, and I can’t take him seriously, he’s a nice guy though. I am seeing someone, my relationship is distant which sucks and legally married, but lives alone. Today’s men, 99 per cent of them are in relationships, so why bother giving attention to them, afterall, they’re puppets.

  3. Paul Ciaccio Says:
    March 7th, 2011 at 4:20 pm

    im whipped to but i love it! Im like a little dog on my girlfriend’s leash! and i like men

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