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Tricks to Get Her Back Can Cost You Your Relationship
By Dr. George Karanastasis | September 7, 2009
What’s worse than losing the girl you love? Having her hate your guts with no chance at a reunion.
Sadly, that’s exactly what happens when one relies on tricks to get her back. I’m talking about things like ignoring her, insulting her, and intentionally trying to make her jealous.
Now, some guys use these methods because they don’t know any better. Others because of bad advice (and there’s plenty of that going around). Either way, the bottom line is this: you can trick a girl to come back to you but she won’t stick around for long. Furthermore, once she leaves again, she’s gone for good. Here is why…
Tricks bring girls back for all the wrong reasons. For example, a woman may break up with a guy because she’s no longer attracted to him. However, it’s not uncommon for her to want him back if she spots him with another girl. Knowing this, a guy can arrange to “accidentally” bump into his ex under these exact circumstances.
It’s a classic “fear of loss” situation: the moment she realizes she can’t have him… she wants to get him back. Now, what do you think will happen if he gives in to her?
Eventually, that fear of loss will fade. But the problem that caused the breakup (attraction) will still be there. The result? She’ll leave once again. Furthermore, when she recognizes the ploy he used to lure her back, she’s basically gone for good.
The only way to get a girl back (and keep her) is to address the problems that drove her away. That’s not something a trick can do. Now, that doesn’t mean you can’t use a few ‘tactics’ to help your situation. In fact, you definitely should. But these tactics should never involve trickery.
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