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Should You Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back?

By Dr. George Karanastasis

Get Your Ex Girlfriend BackAll men are pigs… at least that’s what a woman will tell you when she’s feeling the pain of a breakup. And granted… when it comes to our girlfriends many of us behave in ways that are less than “appropriate” (to say the least). I’m no exception to this.

However, women aren’t saints either. They do their fair share of shitty stuff when it comes to relationships. They too have a knack for stringing guys along, making their lives a living hell, and then kicking them to the curb once they’ve had their fun.

If you’ve been through this before then you know what I’m referring to. And while the logical thing to do in a situation such as this is turn your back on her and walk away… when it comes to breakups logic goes straight out the window.

It’s natural for you to want to get your ex girlfriend back… but some breakups are best left alone. And if you’re considering attempting the hell that is relationship repair, make sure she’s worth it to begin with. It’s better to bite the bullet now then set yourself up for more pain down the road.

So with this in mind, I’m going to list you the 3 types of women that should never be pursued - both during a breakup and in general. And if your ex girlfriend happens to fall into one of the categories then it would be wise for you to let her be.

(One word of warning before we get started: do not read any further if you are easily offended… or in the words of Nicholson if “you can’t handle the truth”…)

1) The Serial Cheater (AKA: The Serial Slut)

Walking away from this one should be a no-brainer. It’s the girl that can’t keep her legs closed long enough to maintain a meaningful relationship. Anytime she encounters anything with a pulse (and a Y chromosome) she’s all over it like flies on shit.

Now, everyone makes mistakes. And if she cheated once it doesn’t mean she’ll do it again. But there’s a difference between messing up and making a habit.

So, if your ex girlfriend fits this exact profile then do yourself a favor and walk away now. Do not attempt to fool yourself by thinking she can change. You’re only setting yourself up for a world of pain. She’s going to do it again… it’s just a matter of time.

And what’s the point of going through the hell of relationship repair only to find yourself right back where you started just days after getting her back?

2) The Gold-Digging “Dime”

Unlike the above, this type of girl is smart. She’s looking for more than cheap thrills and is well aware of our weakest point. It goes without saying that she takes full advantage of this.

She’s hot - a perfect 10 and she knows it. She chooses her partner wisely: someone that keeps giving and giving and giving - but expects little in return (other than having his ego stroked by the looks of other men when he’s walking her down the street).

In contrast, she expects everything handed to her on a silver platter. Naturally, the boyfriend proceeds to give her his all. But once she’s sucked him dry she kicks him to the curb and moves on to her next victim.

Now, if this describes your ex girlfriend… then you my friend have it bad. You’ll fight for her till the end. All I can hope is that your pockets aren’t deep enough to let you win… she’s not worth it - enough said.

3) The Confused Kangaroo

Now, this is the least destructive of them all but it’s one to be avoided nonetheless. It’s the type of girl that keeps jumping back and forth between two guys: you and her ex. And like the cheater it’s understandable for her to do it once… everyone makes mistakes.

But sooner rather than later she should have made up her mind. But it’s not entirely her fault. She only does this because you let her… after all, what does she have to lose? She knows you’re going to take her back when she comes knocking on your door.

So, if this describes your ex girlfriend then put an end to this insanity right now. Make the choice easy for her by stepping out of the way… then you’ll see how soon she comes to her senses and makes up her mind - but don’t make the same mistake - this time shut her out.

Now, if you can honestly say to yourself that you’re not getting the short end of the stick in your relationship (and she doesn’t fit into any of the categories above), then by all means you should try to get your ex girlfriend back… just do it with tact and avoid the fatal mistakes that men in your position often make.

You can learn more about this by getting your hands on this free report. It will make a world of difference in whether you get her back fast or string out this breakup until you lose her for good.

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5 Responses to “Should You Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back?”

  1. Alexandra Says:
    March 17th, 2008 at 11:45 am

    this is amazing. thank you

  2. Chris Says:
    May 8th, 2008 at 1:08 pm

    Dr. Karanastasis - I just wanted to thank you for sending me the link to this page (I’m Chris and I originally posted my story on the “Can You Get Her Back if She’s Dating Someone Else” article. This article is absolutely right! Some people just don’t deserve a wonderful person in their lives. I came to find out that my ex had been seeing someone the last year and a half or our relationship without me knowing (even to the point where they were planning a wedding behind my back). I probably wouldn’t have been invited :). She also had been lying to me when she said her new man didn’t mean anything to her (I saw evidence that told me otherwise/she’d been lying to me the whole time about him too) - needless to say, I think she qualifies as a big time #1. I e-mailed her, told her I knew everything, and wanted nothing to do with her ever again. Her response was flimsy at best but at least she acknowledged what a horrible person she is (whether she believes it or not). I still have feelings and all, but over time, those will fade (can’t wait!). Again, thank you for pointing me to this article. All the best!

  3. shareff Says:
    December 30th, 2008 at 2:42 pm

    Hello

    I want to have contact with someone concerning my girlfriend

    Thanking you in advance

    Regards
    shareff

  4. Lucky Escape Says:
    July 5th, 2011 at 2:30 pm

    God… The creature I was seeing falls into all three of these categories!!

  5. Marcus Says:
    August 25th, 2012 at 11:22 am

    I paid for me ex to go on hoilday with her daughter that’s where she met her new boyfriend she told me what a great lover he is to boot they see each other weekends only Did get a phone call from her three weeks later just to ask me to put back in the broadband cheek I still love her but everyone tells me she s Not worth it and she’s not as beautiful as I say she is my heads gone I don’t phone her or beg he lives two hours away by car it’s not a rebound or is it she told me three weeks ago that she loved me now this he’s meeting her family this Sunday I’m strong and very weak sometimes I have
    told her never to phone me again

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