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Is It Ever Too Late To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back?
By Dr. George Karanastasis | January 31, 2008
One of the greatest concerns a guy has when trying to get an ex girlfriend back is that time is slipping away… and with it, his chances of saving the relationship.
And when you take into consideration that time plays a major role in the reunion process - his feelings of urgency are well warranted.
Truth be told, the ex won’t wait around forever, but when it comes down to it, exactly how much time apart defines when a relationship has passed its point of no return?
Well here’s an answer you may or may not like: there’s no possible way to know whether your relationship is truly over no matter how much time has gone by. Only you can decide this for yourself. In other words, it’s not over till the fat lady sings - and in this case - you are the fat lady.
Therefore, your choices in this matter are two-fold:
- Give up on this girl and cut your losses
- Put a practical plan into place and push forward
Now, whatever you decide to do from here on in, you have to stand by your decision and give it 100% of your effort. Either you’re going to walk away and start a new chapter in your life (without looking back) - or you’re going to press on - full steam ahead towards saving your relationship. You can’t let yourself get caught in the middle ground.
When it comes down to it, you have absolutely nothing to lose by giving this a fair shot. The bottom line? It’s better to have tried and failed then to have never tried at all… wouldn’t you agree?
And since you’re going to give this your all, here’s a free booklet to get you started on the right foot. Inside you’ll find 3 actionable suggestions to get the ball rolling on getting your ex girlfriend back. I wish you the best of luck in your endeavor…
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May 4th, 2009 at 7:41 pm
what if you have tried and failed a couple times.
June 3rd, 2009 at 9:34 am
OK.. I have a situation
Wife walked out one month ago today. Took kids (2 of wich are from a previous marrage of hers). We have been married almost 5 years. Part year+ I have been distant, not showing the best respect, closed off, etc. Caused her to cheat TWICE!. I am dedicated to repairing and fixing this relationship. She has been floating between wanting legal sep. and eventually divorce, and saying “I just need some time”.
I discovered last week after some snooping that she was emailing and seeing yet another guy before she walked out, and then she got mad at me because I went out looking for her one night when i came home at 11:30 pm and she was not there.
She wasent always like this. SOmething changed. Maybe my behavior caused hers to change.
When i confronted about most recent person, who is now gone, I said to leave me alone.. since then we have calmed down but she is still not at home, and says she needs time.. but then will contact me about kids, or contact me about “silly stuff” which i dont know how to read.. some days our conversations will seem normal except no i love you, no talk about any future plans (going out, etc). and then she is not at home when i get home.. WHAT DO I DO?