By Dr. George Karanastasis
Just because your ex is dating someone else, doesn’t mean that she’s gone for good.
In fact, if you play your cards right… not only can you get her back in your arms… you can make the relationship stronger than it ever was.
So in light of this… let’s go over how to win her back from another guy…
First, you must know and understand that she’s most likely in a rebound relationship that will eventually end. This is crucial. Why? So you don’t end up doing anything rash (e.g. professing your undying love to her in an attempt to get her back).
You see, winning a girl back from another guy is more of a “passive” process than anything else. It’s not so much about you do - but about what you don’t. And that’s what makes it so difficult. It’s tough to stand by while your woman is with someone else. Actually, it’s downright gut-wrenching. Nevertheless, if you can exercise a bit of self-control during this period… it will pay off in spades. Just get out of her hair and let the chips fall where they may.
Next, don’t give her “the best of both worlds”. In other words, don’t be her source of (much needed) emotional support during this breakup while the new guy is her source of lighthearted fun. She chose to be with someone else, so let her.
By making her realize that she can only have one of you, she’ll feel pressured to make a decision. And here’s the beauty of this… for this first time since your breakup, she’ll be the one worried about losing you. From there, it’s just a matter of making the right moves until she’s back in your arms.
Finally, never try to convince her that she should dump him and get back with you. She has to come to this conclusion on her own. Of course, you’ll be helping her along in your own way… just not directly (keep in mind…this has to be done with extreme tact; see page 96 in How to Get Her Back for Good for more info).
And while the “devil’s in the details”… if you follow these key pieces of advice, your chances of winning her back from another guy will increase exponentially. Good luck!
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