By Dr. George Karanastasis
Wouldn’t it be nice if your girlfriend were obedient like a (well-trained) puppy dog?
Well… if she already is - good for you. And if she’s not, don’t sweat it. Apparently, now you too can “train you girlfriend“.
That’s right! By following a bit of chauvinistic - yet well meaning - advice you can have her eating out of the palm of your hand in no time.
But on a more serious note, when you look beneath the surface of the term… “training your girlfriend” isn’t about chauvinism or disrespecting the female sex. In fact, it’s quite the contrary: it’s all about respect - giving it and getting it return (note the emphasis on the word ‘return’).
And getting it is actually very simple. It all comes down to one small thing…
SETTING YOUR BOUNDARIES.
That’s all you need to do to establish the type of relationship where your girl doesn’t treat you like a doormat.
Sounds simple enough, right? That’s because it is. But here’s the catch (and the reason why guys get whipped by their women)… There’s only one way to set your boundaries so she knows you mean business…
You must be able to stand on your own two feet - to not be dependant on the relationship to define you as a person. Furthermore, you must be able to walk away from said relationship if she (or any other girl) tries to make you compromise your core principles.
If you can’t do this, then it’s game over. Instead of being the “trainer” you’ll get trained yourself (and it’s a sad sight to see a man in this situation). Now of course, that doesn’t mean the relationship has to be one-sided. It’s all about give and take: just like you should expect her to respect your core principles, so should you.
If you can establish this “happy medium” you’re guaranteed to never have to worry about training anybody. That, and many pleasant memories with this girl or any other you choose to be with.
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