By Dr. George Karanastasis
Things tend to happen in life when you least expect them. And breakups are no exception to this. For instance… when a girl leaves you (9 out of 10 times) you want her back. So you try everything in your power to get her back. Usually this leads you nowhere (or even pushes her further away).
But then… just as you start to lose all hope and begin moving on with your life… something happens that brings her back.
So, in light of this unwritten “rule of love”, this post will go over a simple (yet devastatingly effective) two-step strategy for forgetting your ex girlfriend so you can get her back…
1. Go grab a calendar. Now, count up two weeks from today (four if there’s been a lot of turmoil since the breakup or you’ve pushed her further away) and circle the date. Why? Because you’re not going to attempt any form of contact with your ex until that day comes.
This is a slight variation of the powerful No Contact (NC) tactic. However, rather never allowing yourself to reach out to your ex again (hypothetically speaking, that is) … you’re leaving the door open to a possible future interaction with her. That way, the torture you’re about to inflict on yourself is a little less extreme… and hence… you’re more likely to stick to the plan.
2. For the next two, or four, weeks you must go and meet a new member of the opposite sex. This could be anything from saying a simple “hello” to a woman in the mall all the way to a full-scale date (that is, if your particular situation allows for dating other girls; see page 109 in How to Get Her Back for Good for more info).
Don’t feel like meeting other women? Too bad - force yourself to do it anyway. Every. Single. Day.
Because sooner than later you’re going to start to see (actually “appreciate” is the more fitting term) that there are other fish in the sea - endless amounts of them. This will prevent you from keeping your ex on the pedestal you’ve likely put her on.
Well… not only will you forget your ex girlfriend (not completely but considerably)… but when it comes time for relationship repair, you’ll be operating from a position of strength rather than weakness. And this is absolutely essential if you want to win her back.
So, what are you waiting for? Get to it and have some fun… even if you don’t feel like it. Trust me, you’ll thank me when she’s back in your arms.
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