« Hugh Hefner Is Getting Divorced?!!! | Home | Why You’ll Never Win Her Back Without This… »
Had That First Meeting With Your Ex? What’s Next?
By Dr. George Karanastasis | September 11, 2009
It finally happened: the first meeting with your ex. It’s a moment of excitement, uncertainty, anxiety, and a range of other emotions. Perhaps things went well, perhaps they didn’t.
And maybe you discovered you were over her, or the exact opposite: that you really want her back. Whatever the case, this post will examine each scenario to help guide you along the way… whatever it is that you want to accomplish.
First, let’s focus on what you want from this girl. Do you still have feelings for her? If so, then we’ll go over that in a moment. If not, are you are truly over her? If you can honestly answer is yes, then the rest of this post does not apply to you (but just to be sure, answer the questions contained in this article).
From here on in you can choose to remain friends with her, progressing at a pace you’re comfortable with… or you can cut her off. You decide. Simply go with the flow and you’ll be fine.
Now, if you want to get her back it’s a different story. You don’t have the luxury of “going with the flow” because of the dreaded friend zone. Time is not on your side and you’ll need to use every “asset” at your disposal to go from friend to girlfriend. So let’s examine on the possible outcomes…
Did the meeting go well? You can gauge this by how warm she was toward you and whether or not she hinted (or outright asked) to meet again. If things didn’t go as well as you hoped take a look at this post to ensure there’s nothing you did wrong on your part.
But if the meeting went well then congratulations, my friend! You’re on your way to getting this girl back. From this point forward you have to elevate her attraction for you in a very tactful way. Your goal isn’t simply to keep her interested but to make her want you back.
When you apply the technique outlined in the post I’ve just linked to you’ll bring her closer and closer. From there on in, it’s just a matter of time until you win her back. I wish you the best of luck. And if you need more help, click here to read this report. It’s packed with tips to guide you along so you can bring her back where she belongs: in your arms.
Popularity: 10%
Topics: How To Get Her Back |
October 18th, 2009 at 7:01 am
Hi Doc,
My gf dropped the bomb by saying that she’s not attracted to me anymore, not happy but not sad and what if she meets someone else about 3 weeks ago? I bought your e-book and I think my situation requires me to use LAC because we have been together for 7 1/2 years, we did talk about marriage since last year (we are both 25 yrs of age) and as recent as a few months back. I have done all the pleading and begging before the book but then I told her that I accepted her decision. She started to call me back and we met up after a few days. We’ve been going out since and I can still touch and flirt with her, but no obvious response from her yet. She did told me before that she was not going to shut me off. Do you think the LAC is the right thing to do here?
October 18th, 2009 at 9:25 am
Suffian,
From what you described, yes, this is a “textbook” LAC case. Just follow the instructions in How to Get Her Back for Good to “the letter” in order to slowly escalate things (without going overboard). And once you guys are back together, make sure you address the problems that led to the breakup in the first place.
Best of luck to you…