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Had That First Meeting With Your Ex? What’s Next?

By Dr. George Karanastasis

Meeting With Your Ex? What Next?It finally happened: the first meeting with your ex. It’s a moment of excitement, uncertainty, anxiety, and a range of other emotions. Perhaps things went well, perhaps they didn’t.

And maybe you discovered you were over her, or the exact opposite: that you really want her back. Whatever the case, this post will examine each scenario to help guide you along the way… whatever it is that you want to accomplish.

First, let’s focus on what you want from this girl. Do you still have feelings for her? If so, then we’ll go over that in a moment. If not, are you are truly over her? If you can honestly answer is yes, then the rest of this post does not apply to you (but just to be sure, answer the questions contained in this article).

From here on in you can choose to remain friends with her, progressing at a pace you’re comfortable with… or you can cut her off. You decide. Simply go with the flow and you’ll be fine.

Now, if you want to get her back it’s a different story. You don’t have the luxury of “going with the flow” because of the dreaded friend zone. Time is not on your side and you’ll need to use every “asset” at your disposal to go from friend to girlfriend. So let’s examine on the possible outcomes…

Did the meeting go well? You can gauge this by how warm she was toward you and whether or not she hinted (or outright asked) to meet again. If things didn’t go as well as you hoped take a look at this post to ensure there’s nothing you did wrong on your part.

But if the meeting went well then congratulations, my friend! You’re on your way to getting this girl back. From this point forward you have to elevate her attraction for you in a very tactful way. Your goal isn’t simply to keep her interested but to make her want you back.

When you apply the technique outlined in the post I’ve just linked to you’ll bring her closer and closer. From there on in, it’s just a matter of time until you win her back. I wish you the best of luck. And if you need more help, click here to read this report. It’s packed with tips to guide you along so you can bring her back where she belongs: in your arms.

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4 Responses to “Had That First Meeting With Your Ex? What’s Next?”

  1. Suffian Says:
    October 18th, 2009 at 7:01 am

    Hi Doc,

    My gf dropped the bomb by saying that she’s not attracted to me anymore, not happy but not sad and what if she meets someone else about 3 weeks ago? I bought your e-book and I think my situation requires me to use LAC because we have been together for 7 1/2 years, we did talk about marriage since last year (we are both 25 yrs of age) and as recent as a few months back. I have done all the pleading and begging before the book but then I told her that I accepted her decision. She started to call me back and we met up after a few days. We’ve been going out since and I can still touch and flirt with her, but no obvious response from her yet. She did told me before that she was not going to shut me off. Do you think the LAC is the right thing to do here?

  2. Dr. George Karanastasis Says:
    October 18th, 2009 at 9:25 am


    From what you described, yes, this is a “textbook” LAC case. Just follow the instructions in How to Get Her Back for Good to “the letter” in order to slowly escalate things (without going overboard). And once you guys are back together, make sure you address the problems that led to the breakup in the first place.

    Best of luck to you…

  3. Moe Says:
    March 14th, 2010 at 7:57 pm

    My gf broke up with me about a month ago stating that we are at different points in our lives. She has been struggling to win custody of her son with her ex husband and this has completely drained her energy. I have seen her interest in me decline and I bought your book even before the break-up. When it happened, I was prepared, I agreed it was the best thing to do and went into NC. Sure enough, 17 days later she called “just to hear my voice”. We have talked/texted almost every day since, she said she missed me. We met at a mutual friend’s party, we had fun talking together. I try to follow your advice, I show her that I care but at the same time I do not give in to her. I try to tease her a lot and flirt. I never did anything that might come across as needy. But I am worried that she got her fix and that she is retreating again. It’s been two days now since our last contact (the longest since she broke NC) and I am worried that I’ll have to go thru all this pain once again, just when I thought I was on the right track? Any advice?

  4. Scrone Says:
    March 2nd, 2012 at 12:15 am

    Hi. I’m in NC with my ex, although I haven’t actually clarified it to her. I figured I’d wait and tell her whenever she contacts me, and she hasn’t yet. It’s been almost two weeks. She goes to school across the state (I used to visit maybe every two or three weeks). Her Spring Break starts tomorrow (Friday, March 1st). She’s inevitably going to ask to come by and pick up her stuff while she’s in town. When she does, should I tell her that I’ll drop it in her mailbox while I’m out and continue NC, or should I invite her over and hope it turns into a “meeting?”


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